Sometimes, all it takes is one conversation to begin building a community.
For Salwa, a PhD student and mother of three, that moment came on a windy April afternoon at St Sidwell’s Community Centre.
Having moved to Exeter from Saudi Arabia, Salwa was navigating life far from home, without nearby family, and with a growing sense of disconnection. Despite her love for the city, she shared how isolating it felt to sit in parks or cafés, unsure of how to talk to others in English or whether she would be accepted, especially as a visibly Muslim woman.
But community starts with listening. When Salwa met with one of our Community Builders, something shifted. A simple, warm welcome in her own language created an instant connection. That conversation uncovered something powerful: Salwa didn’t just want to find community — she wanted to help build one.
After listening to Salwa, something shifted. She looked at me and said,
“You have listened and have been so helpful. It’s like having my own magic lamp.”
To her, that conversation—being heard, understood, and encouraged—felt like a turning point. Like discovering something precious that could change everything. And just like the magic lamp in the stories, it didn’t solve everything instantly, but it helped her see that she already had what she needed inside her — confidence, connection, and courage — waiting to be brought to life.
Together, they explored her passions — crafts, cooking, soap making, dancing — and her wish to improve her English by engaging with native speakers. From there, ideas began to grow. She introduced the builder to an existing WhatsApp group of international students who were also craving connection and language confidence. In response, a weekly Conversation Café was set up, first in collaboration with Inclusive Exeter at the mosque, and later at St Sidwell’s, where free drinks were offered thanks to local wellbeing funding.
These sessions weren’t just about learning English. They were about being seen. Feeling welcome. Sharing stories. And forming friendships.
Week by week, the group grew stronger — not only in language skills but in trust, support, and belonging. The WhatsApp group flourished as a space to connect, share opportunities, and support one another.
Why Community Matters
Salwa’s story shows what we at Exeter Community Initiatives know to be true: community isn’t just about where you live — it’s about how you connect.
When we listen, welcome, and support people to build on their own strengths, they not only transform their own lives — they help shape stronger, more inclusive communities for everyone.
And it starts with something as small as a cup of coffee and a conversation.
Find your local Community Builder here.